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Pozn\u00e1te to \u2013…","datePublished":"2019-12-24","dateModified":"2023-04-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.frajerka.sk\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.frajerka.sk\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a414941ff2b86a79f1a70a433f21d60df00047fefe742a46b6fded139881a475?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a414941ff2b86a79f1a70a433f21d60df00047fefe742a46b6fded139881a475?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"frajerka.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.frajerka.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a308933_w16848_t1576858557.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.frajerka.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a308933_w16848_t1576858557.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.frajerka.sk\/co-s-tym-ked-sa-vam-ludia-vyhybaju\/","about":["Lifestyle"],"wordCount":486,"articleBody":"Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee s t\u00fdmto probl\u00e9mom sa stretol u\u017e sn\u00e1\u010f ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s aspo\u0148 raz v \u017eivote. Pozn\u00e1te to \u2013 pr\u00edde na v\u00e1s zl\u00e9 obdobie, po\u010das ktor\u00e9ho doslova \u013eud\u00ed odpudzujete. Prirodzene toti\u017e dok\u00e1\u017eeme vyc\u00edti\u0165, kto n\u00e1s pri sebe chce, \u010di je n\u00e1m s tak\u00fdmto \u010dlovekom dobre alebo sa n\u00e1m viac dar\u00ed, ke\u010f s n\u00edm prestaneme tr\u00e1vi\u0165 \u010das. Av\u0161ak, nie sme tu od toho, aby sme niekoho z v\u00e1s s\u00fadili, ale v prvom rade by sme v\u00e1m s t\u00fdmto probl\u00e9mom chceli pom\u00f4c\u0165. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s toti\u017e potrebuje spolo\u010dnos\u0165 a ak sa n\u00e1m na\u0161i priatelia, bl\u00edzki a rodina za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00fa vyh\u00fdba\u0165, mali by sme vedie\u0165, \u017ee nie\u010do s nami nie je v poriadku. My v\u00e1m pr\u00e1ve teraz pon\u00fakame d\u00f4vody, pre\u010do od v\u00e1s \u013eudia bo\u010dia, ale taktie\u017e aj rie\u0161enia! V prvom rade ide o sebectvo. To je \u010dast\u00fdm probl\u00e9mom, ktor\u00e9 sa vyskytuje v spolo\u010dnosti a kv\u00f4li ktor\u00e9mu sa s vami m\u00e1lokto bude chcie\u0165 priateli\u0165. V pr\u00edpade, \u017ee v\u00e1s tr\u00e1pi pr\u00e1ve toto, nez\u00fafajte. Sk\u00faste sa nau\u010di\u0165 rozd\u00e1va\u0165 bez toho, aby ste za to nie\u010do \u017eiadali. Mo\u017eno to znie zlo\u017eito, ale tejto vlastnosti sa ur\u010dite d\u00e1 zbavi\u0165. Na druhom mieste by sme jednozna\u010dne chceli umiestni\u0165 namyslenos\u0165, preto\u017ee ani s \u0148ou to \u010faleko nedotiahnete. Presta\u0148te hovori\u0165 len o sebe a za\u010dnite po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 aj druh\u00fdch. Uvid\u00edte, \u017ee t\u00fdmto sp\u00f4sobom si k v\u00e1m op\u00e4\u0165 n\u00e1jdu cestu va\u0161i star\u00ed priatelia, ale spozn\u00e1te aj nov\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed si v\u00e1s bez tejto nepr\u00edjemnej vlastnosti ur\u010dite zamiluj\u00fa. A \u010do hovor\u00edte napr\u00edklad na to, ke\u010f sa v\u00e1m niekto ustavi\u010dne s\u0165a\u017euje? Prek\u00e1\u017ea v\u00e1m to? Ak \u00e1no, tak sa zamyslite nad t\u00fdm, \u010di nie\u010do podobn\u00e9 nerob\u00edte aj vy. Sk\u00faste sa na ur\u010dit\u00e9 veci pozera\u0165 trochu s nadh\u013eadom a neberte \u017eivot a\u017e tak v\u00e1\u017ene. Za\u010dnite sa viac usmieva\u0165 a aj v nepr\u00edjemn\u00fdch z\u00e1le\u017eitostiach n\u00e1jdite nejak\u00e9 pozit\u00edvum, aj ke\u010f to nie je v\u017edy naj\u013eah\u0161ie. Taktie\u017e v\u00e1s ale m\u00f4\u017ee tr\u00e1pi\u0165 aj prehnan\u00fd perfekcionizmus. V tomto pr\u00edpade by ste si ale mali uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1me nejak\u00e9 chyby. Neexistuje dokonal\u00fd \u010dlovek, preto by ste to mali za\u010da\u0165 akceptova\u0165. Ani vy predsa nerob\u00edte v\u0161etko najlep\u0161ie, no nie? Pok\u00faste sa prija\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed vo svojom okol\u00ed tak\u00fdch ak\u00ed s\u00fa a uvid\u00edte, \u017ee oni v\u00e1s taktie\u017e bud\u00fa vn\u00edma\u0165 v ove\u013ea lep\u0161om svetle. Preto\u017ee presne toto je cesta ku \u0161\u0165astiu v \u017eivote.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"\u010co s t\u00fdm, ke\u010f sa v\u00e1m \u013eudia vyh\u00fdbaj\u00fa?","item":"https:\/\/www.frajerka.sk\/co-s-tym-ked-sa-vam-ludia-vyhybaju\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]